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[-101-] THE HAIR.
Fair and Dark Women-Blondes and Brunettes.
Is there a woman living who has not
coveted the "mantle of a king" sung by Musset?
"Cette chevelure qui l'inonde,
Plus longue qu'un mauteau de roi."
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And in truth it is a splendid ornament that
Nature has bestowed on her chosen ones,
and which they ought to know how to
preserve-as, indeed, everyone ought, no
matter what kind of hair they have been
given.
Of course, to be really beautiful, hair
should be abundant, fine, and brilliant. But
let not those despair altogether whose hair
is thin, short, coarse, or lustreless; these
faults may be somewhat, if not a great deal,
diminished by intelligent efforts.
All the beautiful qualities we have
enumerated will not suffice for many women
if their hair is black as a raven's wing.
They want to be fair, as all, or nearly all,
the fatal and fascinating women of history
have been.
Eve, they say, was fair as honey; the
locks of Venus streamed over her divine
shoulders in a golden flood; the hair of
Ceres was the colour of the harvest; Helen
the beautiful, whom even the old men of [-103-]
Troy could not see without emotion,
crowned her adorable head with fair hair
like ripe corn; Salome, who asked for and
obtained the head of John the Baptist,
had yellow hair-at least, the old masters
painted her fair, like the young Jewesses
of high birth ; Lucretia Borgia, Lady
Macbeth the murderess, and Queen Mary
were all blondes; Queen Elizabeth had red
hair; and Catherine and Marie de Medicis
were also fair.
Cousin thus describes the hair of his
adored Duchesse de Longueville: "Her
tresses were of a blond cendré and of
the utmost fineness. They descended in
abundant curls, inundating her admirable
shoulders, and ornamenting the delicate
oval of her face."
Anne of Austria, again, was a blonde;
so was Madame de Sevigné, whose way of
dressing her hair is still famous; and the
gentle La Vallière was also fair.
The fair hair of Marie Antoinette and [-104-] of Madame de Lamballe would have been
enough to make them beautiful. Madame
Emile de Girardin also had a remarkable
head of fair hair; and one of the beauties
of the Empress Eugénie was her very
blonde hair.
I confess I admire this fair hair -
whether cendré, golden, or auburn--and
this taste has been shared from antiquity.
In the time of Pericles the Greeks washed
their hair in soap-suds and water to take
out the colour, afterwards rubbing it with
the fat of goats, beech-ashes, and yellow
flowers. Then they let it hang over
their shoulders to dry. The Germans were
proud of their light hair, and those who
had it not by nature had recourse to art to
help them. Washing the hair with beer
was supposed to be efficacious for making
it fair, and also an application of lime.
Roman ladies cursed their sombre-coloured
hair, and Ovid relates that they covered
their heads with blonde wigs bought in [-105-]
Germania at high prices. Everyone knows
what pains and trouble the Venetian
women took in order to attain that flame-coloured copper-tint for their hair which is
called the blond Titien.
Nowadays there are some who get their
hair dyed mahogany colour in the most
scientific and approved manner ; it is
perfectly hideous. Others who are blondes
by nature make the colour of their hair
still fairer with the help of oxidised water,
Englishwomen wash their hair with rum
and an infusion of colocynth, to prevent it
from becoming browner with advancing
years.
It seems that in olden days (those
happy olden days !) there were many more
blondes than there are now. Do you wish
to know why, even in northern countries,
the hair becomes darker century after
century ? "Heaven," says a humorist,
"sent a great many golden-haired women
on the earth to charm the other half of [-106-]humanity. Seeing this, the devil, who
hates man, sent us cooks: they with their
sauces and ragouts have disordered the
human hair, and these disorders manifest
themselves outwardly by the sombre colour
of the hair." Some grain of truth may
perhaps lie hidden under this absurdity.
Arab women and the subjects of the
Shah prefer dark hair, and they dye their
beautiful black hair darker with henna.
The leaves of this plant, reduced to powder
and mixed with water, form a cosmetic with
which the hair is carefully covered. This
paste is taken off some hours after, by
washing with water tinged with indigo,
which leaves the hair a splendid colour for
some days afterwards.
The Russians admire nut-brown hair
above all others, affirming that Christ had
hair of that colour.
Auburn or light chestnut hair is much
thought of in England; it suits the fresh
faces of the daughters of Albion.
[-107-] How to Dress the Hair.
In spite of my avowed preference for
fair hair, I would advise no one to change
the colour of their hair, were it as dark or
black as Erebus. Nature gives to each face
the frame which is most becoming to it,
and it is impossible to improve or correct
her on this point.
To make the best of whatever hair we
possess is to choose the best way of dressing it. But it is curious that in arranging their
style of hair-dressing, women never consider
either the colour or the texture of their hair.
We should not try to curl smooth hair,
any more than we should flatten down
curly or even wavy hair. It is certain that
some faces require the frame which their
naturally fuzzy and curly hair gives them.
Black hair and the faces it goes with are
not improved by being frizzed; they need
smooth bandeaux, long lustrous curls, large
plaits. Red hair should be frizzed; when [-108-] fuzzed out and separated, the colour becomes
softened. Heavy tresses of brown hair are
very pretty. Blonde hair will hear almost
every style of dressing: it is charming in
smooth polished bands, adorable in a halo
round the forehead.
Why do not women dress their, hair to
suit the particular character of their own
faces, instead of making themselves ugly
by following whatever is the fashion?
Women ought even to have the courage to
allow their hair to become white. All dyes
founded on silver or lead are dangerous.
Moreover, they only make the hair and
complexion ugly. Let us accept the snows
the years bring; they harmonise with the
countenance which time and suffering have
given us-and framed in white hair, certain
faces become strangely softened and improved. There is both grace and dignity
in disdaining to repair the irreparable
ravages of time. "And what about
powder?" I shall be asked. I would not [-109-] powder even white hair. Powdered hair
makes the features look hard, as does everything that is not natural. The refined
faces of the eighteenth century would have
been even more charming if Richelieu had
not thought of concealing his first silver
threads with flour. Moreover, as there is
nothing new under the sun, the conqueror
of Port Mahon has not even the credit of
inventing powdered hair. The ancient
Greeks, who sometimes dyed their hair
white, had the custom, too, of powdering it,
so as to render it the azure colour of the
skies and waves; or by means of coloured
powders to give it the changing tints of a
pigeon's throat, or that of the honey of
Mount Hymettus.
If the hair is drawn too tight, plastered
down, or too much twisted, it is no longer
an ornament, and looks as if the owner was
anxious to get rid of it, instead of treating
it as an embellishment. Indeed, the effect
is disastrous. A certain amount of freedom [-110-]
and abandon should be allowed to the hair;
and this is also good for the hair itself.
Very deep thick fringes coming down
low on the forehead give an animal look
to the face; but a few small light little
curls on the top of the forehead are very
becoming.
To dispose the hair becomingly, the
feature and structure of the figure should
be considered. A small thin woman looks
ridiculous if she enlarges her head too much
by the way she wears her hair. If the
forehead is high and prominent, and the
features large, dragging the hair up a la Chinoise will be simply hideous. If you
make your parting a very little to one side
of the head, it will take five years off your
age; but a parting quite at the side will
make the most delicately moulded face
appear masculine. Everyone should avoid
an eccentric coiffure; and the size of the
head should never be increased by a mass
of false hair. The head will have more [-111-] refinement and distinction if left its
natural
shape, and will be more in harmony with
the figure to which it belongs.
A worn and elderly-looking woman will
find herself wonderfully improved by covering her hair, even if it is still plentiful, with
a lace mantilla, which will veil the ravages
of time about her face, and will form a
graceful frame for it. An old woman looks
frightful with a tare head; and the light
shadows thrown by lace will do much to
dissimulate the effects of age.
The fashion of frizzing the hair, whether
with hot irons, pins, or any other artificial
means of making it wavy, is, it must be
confessed, a disastrous one for the beauty
and growth of the hair. And what would
become of us, with these short hairs
round the forehead that have become
crisp, stiff, and coarse by frequent cutting and curling, if the decree went forth
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that the fashion for smooth bands should
come in?
I know that many women, thinking
themselves very clever, wear a false fringe.
But this opens up new danger. Very often
false hair, in spite of the purifying it has
undergone, has communicated skin disease
to the wearer. Hair cut from the heads of
the Chinese is specially apt to spread this
infection. Fortunately, the hair of the
Celestials is easily discerned; very coarse,
harsh, black, and brilliant, is this hair that
comes from the extreme East.
False hair should be often renewed. It
it is cut off the head of a living person it
keeps its vitality for about two years, or a
little longer. After that it becomes unequal,
stiff, and rough, and can no longer be used.
Hair taken from the dead is never used by
hairdressers who value their reputation. It
cannot be frizzed or curled without great
difficulty.
As few hair-pins as possible should be [-113-] used for confining the hair, so as not to
irritate the skin of the head, as they often
do. I am speaking of black japanned hairpins. Those made of tortoise-shell (either
real or imitation) and the thick-gilt wire
hair-pins have not this drawback, for they
cannot make painful pricks.
It is well sometimes to change the way
of dressing the hair for a day or two; it
makes the hair grow thin if it is always
done exactly in the same manner, and is
always twisted in the same direction.
If the hair is parted it should be done
afresh every day. This daily operation
keeps the parting very narrow and close,
and the contrary happens if this trifling
trouble is neglected.
It is further necessary to cut about aim
inch off the ends of the hair at the new
moon during the first quarter. The hair will gain as much from one new moon to
another; there is no fear, therefore, of
diminishing its length. At the end of the [-114-] year it will be found to be the same as at
time beginning; and some hair will even
grow much longer, thanks to this habit of
pointing it. I do not believe that the
tranquil queen of the night has really much
to do with the growth of the hair; but
who knows? - for, after all, there are occult
and mysterious influences which science has
not yet explained. It is doubtless to the
regularity of the proceeding that the good
effects are to be attributed. One thing is certain - that hair which has the ends cut
at every new moon will grow more
abundantly.
It is best to sleep with the head uncovered. Hair that is left free at night
will be finer, more silky, and neater than if
it is imprisoned in a cap. But one must be
used from childhood to sleep with nothing
on the head. In this case the hair should
be raised above the ears, without pulling it,
and loosely plaited in one large plait, tied
with a ribbon, and not fastened in any other [-115-] way. Beware of plaiting the hair under a
cap or net; the more free and separated it
is, the more shining and lustrous it will
become. Above all, let no one wear such a
thing as a starched cap ; the starch is sure
to get among the hair, and to spoil it.
Those who have been used from childhood to wearing night-caps will be likely to
catch colds, toothache, or earache, if they
change this habit, especially in winter.
Amid even those who have never had the
habit will do well to adopt a night-cap in
old age.
To keep the hair nice, it should be
brushed on going to bed at night, as well as
when dressing in the daytime, with a soft
brush. The best brushes are those with
short bristles, and unbleached. The hair
should be disentangled from the extreme
end, after having divided it into as many
tresses as necessary. If you begin to comb from the roots to the ends, without having
separated the hair into three or four parts, [-116-] you will do a great deal of damage. You
will certainly break it, and make it ugly and
impossible to give it a cared-for aspect. It
is very good to burnish the hair with
the hand. In Turkey the slave who has
charge of the sultana's hair caresses and
rolls it about in her hands until it is as
supple, soft, and brilliant as a skein of silk.
It is as well to use as little grease, oils,
or pomades as possible.
The Roman ladies thought that walnut-
juice made the hair luxuriant.
The frequent use of a fine toothcomb is
fatal for the hair, especially when it is
falling out. Nevertheless it is necessary to
keep the hair and the scalp clean.
One of my friends, who has the prettiest
hair in the world-soft, neat, wavy, and
burnished-cleans it from time to time with
a mineral essence.
The Chinese, who have good hair, [-117-]
although stiff and coarse, use a mixture of
honey and flowers.
English people use the following solution :-A teacupful of salt in a quart of
rain-water. This can be used after it has
stood for twelve hours. To one cup of the
preparation add a cup of warm rain-water.
Wash the hair well with this, rinsing and
rubbing it, as well as the scalp, with a towel
till they are quite dry.
Italians, who are blessed with very
vigorous heads of hair, wash it and the
scalp with a decoction made from the roots
of nettles.
The Creoles of Cuba make a decoction
from rosemary leaves, which they consider
cleans, strengthens, and softens the hair.
An excellent lotion is made as follows:- Boil 1¾ oz. of roots of
soap-wort in a
pint and a half of water. The preparation
should be used warm, and the hair and head
must be dried quickly with warm towels.
The yolk of an egg is very good for [-118-]
cleaning the hair, and helps to make it
grow. The skin of the head should be well
rubbed with the yolk, and then rinsed with.
warm water. The white of eggs, well beaten
up into a froth, is also one of the simplest
and best preparations; it should be used in
the same way as the yolks.
Here, finally, are some more elaborate
lotions for those who disdain simple remedies:-
1st. One that is useful for washing the
hair, besides being good when it is falling
out, and for headaches :-Take half a pint of
rectified and sweet-smelling spirit, dissolve
in it 8 grains of sulphate of quinine, and
leave it to infuse for two days in a bottle
hermetically corked. After that time, add
a pint of old rum and 1¾ ounces of yellow
quinine in powder. Leave these together
for three days; then rinse the sediment with
about two-fifths of water, and mix the two
liquids, filtering them through paper.
2nd. A chemist gives this recipe to [-119-]
enable one to make a quinine wash oneself
for washing the head :- Sulphate of quinine 46 grains, enough eau de Rahel to dissolve
it; opoponax 5 drams, dissolved in the
necessary quantity of rectified alcohol at 96º; add 3 drops of patchouly, 2½ drachrns
of essence of violets, and 2½ drachms of
essence of bouquet. Make it up to six
quarts by adding enough alcohol at 40º.
Throw into the liquid 2½ ounces of
powdered orris-root; leave it to stand for
eight days, and then strain it.
3rd. Shampooing mixture used in England :-A quart of hot or cold water, in which
1 ounce of carbonate of soda has been
dissolved and half an ounce of Pears' soap
cut into small pieces. Add to this some
drops of perfumed essence and 1 ounce
of spirits of wine. After washing the hair
with this. preparation, it should be rinsed
with tepid water, and then both the head
and hair should be rubbed with warm towels
till they are dry.
[-120-] It is always well to dry the hair rapidly
and thoroughly; and after drying, it should
be allowed to hang loosely over the shoulders
for an hour or two. The hair will get
much less matted if after shaking it out it
is allowed to hang loose over the shoulders
while one is dressing and undressing.
White hair (and, indeed, some other hair)
can be admirably cleaned with flour; it, as
well as the skin of the head, should be
rubbed with the flour, and then carefully
brushed. I think this is perhaps the best
way of all. It is a pity that it is difficult
to use it with dark hair, for obvious reasons.
Dandruff is not only very unsightly, but
brings baldness in its train. This affection may be obstinate, as it is often due to
a bad state of health; but before having recourse to medical treatment simple remedies
like the following can be tried
1st. Melt 2 ounces of crystals of soda [-121-] in a quart of water, and 1 ounce of
eau de Cologne. Dip a hairbrush into this
water, and pass it over the affected parts
several times a day.
2nd. Apply lemon-juice to the scalp;
the juice should touch the hair as little as
possible.
3rd. Take 2½ drachms of Panama
wood, and boil it in a pint of rain-water.
With the decoction wash the parts affected
two or three times a week.
When the hair falls out without reason,
there must be some disease ; and the same
may be said when it splits at the points.
Grief causes the hair to fall out and get
thin. There is no remedy for this but time
and forgetfulness and happier days.
Often the hair falls out without any apparent cause; when it does, be sure you are out
of health, perhaps without knowing it yourself-especially if your hair becomes dead
and rough. We know that an animal is in
good health when its fur is silky and bright. [-122-]
With all due respect it is just the same
with men and even women. Watch yourself in this case, and find out what the
mischief is. Under such circumstances a
good treatment for the hair is to soap the
scalp and then anoint it, rubbing in well a
mixture of castor-oil, oil of sweet almonds,
and of tannin.
A girl of fifteen may suddenly find her
beautiful hair falling out without any appreciable cause. It should then be cut
off to about the lobe of the ear, and a
stimulating lotion applied to the scalp.
There is no need for anxiety, unless the
hair does not begin to grow again. A
doctor would advise in. that case that the
head should be shaved, and washed three
times a week with the following preparation: - Half an ounce of colocynth in a pint of
good Jamaica rum. This should be strained
at the end of three days, and the infusion
poured into a bottle and well corked. The
head should be vigorously brushed before [-123-]
the application. The hair will grow again,
and it will be supposed that it is the colocynth that has changed its former tint to a
charming golden one.
A man may put up with being bald, for
he has so many fellow-sufferers; moreover,
a man s face is not much the worse for this
defect. But a bald woman is indeed to be
pitied. She cannot accept this misfortune--
at least, she must hide it by every conceivable means. She must take refuge in a
wig, or in wearing before her time lace caps
or mantillas in the house, which always ages
the wearer a little.
Nevertheless, the number of bald women
increases every day. This state of things
is attributed to the curling-irons, which
have been too much used; to the wigs; to
the false hair, which has caused the real to
fall out; to the woollen fichus thrown over
the head to keep it from the cold either in [-124-] the house or garden; to the velvet bows
worn on the top of the head; etc. etc.
There is very likely some truth in all this;
but in my opinion it is to the dyes, above
all, that the evil is due.
People do not wait now for their hair to
turn white before they dye it; they vary
the colour of their hair with their toilette.
One day they appear blonde, the next red or
brown. Those who have black hair get it
dyed an indelible mahogany tint. When
women with fair hair see it getting darker,
they immediately try to make it light
again with oxidised water, which spoils the
texture of the hair.
Those who find their hair turning white
would go to the Prince of Darkness himself
to conceal the snows of time, and one soon
perceives that they have used infernal
measures. This is a sad want of common-
sense. We must remain what we are, or
what we have become. It is high time to
remedy the evil for the sake of future [-125-]
generations. We must go back to simple
hair-dressing, without the addition of false
hair or crimping-irons. People will take
care to cover their heads with silk and not
woollen kerchiefs; velvet will be given up
as an ornament for the hair; and, above
all, dyes will be renounced. The natural
colour of the hair will be kept; it will be
allowed to darken, and then to grow white;
and grey hair itself will not be powdered.
At this cost the hair will remain abundant
and vigorous, even in those of advanced age,
and will allow of being prettily and grace.
fully dressed.
Are not thick bandeaux, even at the
pepper-and-salt stage, preferable to a bald
head or to false hair, which it is easily
seen does not belong to the head it
is on?
There is but one way of remedying
feminine baldness, and that is by inventing
pretty lace caps to hide it; and mothers
who are thus afflicted should teach their [-126-] daughters how to avoid the necessity for
this addition to their toilette.
Recipes for Preventing the Hair from Falling Out.
Brunettes may stop their raven locks
from falling out by the application of lemon-
juice to their scalps.
Another remedy for the same evil is the
following :-Wash the head every night
with this mixture, rubbing it in hard: A teaspoonful of salt and one scruple of quinine,
added to a pint of ordinary brandy; shake
the mixture well. The following recipe
I have seen made, and have known good
results from its use :-Three common onions
cleaned and put into a quart of ruin for
twenty-four hours; the onions are then
taken out, and the rum used to rub the
scalp with every other day. The slight
odour of onions it may retain evaporates in
a few minutes.
The Lancet recommends the following [-127-]
pomade for hair falling out:- 5 parts of
tincture of jaborandi, 3 parts of lanoline,
20 parts of glycerine; mixed with the
help of a little soft-soap; the head to be
rubbed every night with a little of this
pomade on the end of your finger.
A friend of mine derived benefit from a
decoction of the leaves of the walnut in
water, with which he wetted the scalp every
night by means of a sponge. He had been
obliged to give up the use of a fine comb,
and the following had been ordered for
use in dressing his hair in the morning:- Unguent of balsam 30 parts, tannin
1 part, tincture of benzoin 3 parts. Again,
a man who was having pilocarpine injected
for his sight recovered all his hair, at the
age of sixty.
The head should not be shaved after an
illness. The hair will at once stop falling out if it is cut three times (I am, of
course, speaking of women's hair). Each
time a certain length should be taken off in [-128-] proportion to the length of the hair; the
third time it should be left longer than to the
lobe of the ear. One must resign oneself to
wearing the hair like a boy at first, then
like a little girl as it grows longer. The
most grievous results might ensue from
wearing a wig or false hair of any kind, for
one would risk losing what remained of
one s hair without hope of recovery. From
the day on which the hair is begun to be
cut, the head should be rubbed with an
infusion of quinine and a mixture of rum
and castor-oil in equal parts.
Tepid sage-tea is also recommended on
condition that the head is well dried with
warm towels.
Some hair is so dry that it cannot
do without pomade for fear of breaking it.
A doctor recommends oil of vaseline very
much rectified (liquid vaseline), and perfumed according to taste.
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If other oils or pomades are preferred,
they should be prepared at home, for bad
pomades cause or hasten the loss of hair.
Care should be taken above all to clarify
the grease or oil used, and for this it must
undergo a preliminary preparation. The
oils or marrows should be put into a bain-marie with 3 parts of powdered benzoin, and
3 parts of powdered balm of Tolu to every 100 parts of the grease. It must be
stirred often with a wooden spoon. After
two hours' boiling, the oils and grease are
strained through a cloth. The benzoin acid,
like vanilla, possesses the property of preventing fatty substances with which it is incorporated becoming rancid.
Vaseline never
becomes rancid. To make another pomade,
take 3 ounces of the grease prepared in the
best manner, 2 ounces of beef marrow, and
1 ounce of sweet-almond oil; before these
substances are quite stiff and cold, perfume
them with 30 minims of essence of bergamot
and 1 drachm of essence of violet.
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Some people use water instead of
pomade; nothing is worse for the hair. The habit of using the saliva to smooth the
hair is a disgusting and often a dangerous one.
How to Clean Combs and Brushes.
There is nothing better than ammonia
for cleaning hair-brushes; it does not soften
the bristles as soap and soda do. Put a
teaspoonful of ammonia in a quart of water;
dip the brush into this, preserving the ivory
or wooden backs as well as possible. An
immersion of a few seconds will suffice to
take out all the grease. The brush should
then be dipped in clear water and dried in
the open air, but not in the sun.
Combs must never be washed. They can
be cleaned with a tightly-stretched string
or with a card, by sticking the teeth into
cotton-wool, or by using a little flat hard
brush, or any of the implements invented
by hairdressers for the purpose. There are [-131-]
special brushes for brushing out the combs
every time they are used.
The greatest neatness is necessary for
all implements used for hair-dressing.
Ammonia takes the colour out of the hair. Beware, therefore, if you use it in your bath, not to wet your hair. Indeed, the hair should be kept from all contact with water, except what is actually necessary for cleansing purposes.
THE purity of the breath has a great
effect on the beauty and preservation of the
teeth; and, moreover, if that purity is
altered, one's fellow-creatures withdraw
more or less to a distance from one. It is [-132-] obvious, therefore, that the freshness of the
breath is of the greatest importance, and
that we must not disdain the means by
which it may be preserved, or restored if
lost.
Sobriety, health, complete abstinence
from strong flavours (such as garlic and
onions), and clean and healthy teeth: these
are the conditions, in a word, which will
admit of our preserving to old age, and
even till death, a breath as sweet and fresh
as a child's.
Diseases of the mouth and stomach,
neglected and decayed teeth, the abuse of
alcoholic liquors, too high living, rich and
spiced dishes, are all compromising to the
breath. If the cause should arise from the
stomach, from ·the teeth, or from a disease
of the mouth, the use of purgating mineral
waters, powdered chalk, or magnesia and
bicarbonate of soda, are all indicated.
Bad teeth should be extracted relentlessly. If it is impossible to go at once to
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the dentist, small pieces of iris-root should
be kept in the mouth to counteract the
effect of the bad state of the teeth.
The people of Java eat the bark of
cinnamon to perfume their mouths and
make them sweet. The famous little
dancers of Kampong, at the Paris Exhibition,
had brought a large provision of it.
The resinous substance which flows from
an incision made in the bark of a gum-tree
is an astringent for the gums, and gives a
delicious odour to the breath. It is gum in
tears; the sultanas make much use of it.
If we are to believe Martial, the Roman
ladies used tooth-picks cut out of the wood
of the turpentine-tree.
A mixture of tincture of camphor and
myrrh is excellent for gargling and washing
out the mouth when any accident of health
affects the breath temporarily: a few drops
of each in a glass of water. If myrrh alone
is used, ten drops will suffice.
When you have eaten cólelettes à la [-134-]
soubise, or any other dish in which there is
onion, swallow a cup of black coffee immediately after. Coffee is an antidote to the
atrocious odour which that bulb communicates to the respiratory organs. As for
garlic, let no one ever touch it.
I have heard of a very easy and practicable remedy for the unpleasant evil of which
we are speaking, namely
Powdered charcoal - 1part
Powered white sugar 1 part
Powdered good chocolate 3 parts
Melt the chocolate in a bain-marie, then add the sugar and charcoal; mix them all very well together. After the preparation has been allowed to get cold on marble, cut it up into small squares, and eat three or four of these during the day.
I should hardly be forgiven if I left the
subject of the mouth without mentioning
the lips.
[-135-] To be beautiful, the lips should have the
red of raspberries, and they should be soft,
and not chapped. Red lips are incompatible
with certain temperaments. In such cases
people must resign themselves to pale-
coloured lips, for all attempts to heighten
their colour will only succeed for the moment,
and be detrimental to the softness and the
suppleness of the tissues.
Do not have recourse, therefore, to
friction with alcohol, vinegars, or cosmetics;
you will certainly lose more in the long run
than you gain temporarily. If your lips are
not rough, they will always have a certain
freshness and smoothness, which in itself is
a charm, in spite of a pale pink colour.
Alcohol, vinegars, and rouge will destroy
the exquisite delicacy of the epidermis, so
essential to this feature. How often do
children say to women who kiss them,
"Your lips prick," because they have made
their skin harsh by using stupid remedies.
Many women bite their lips on entering a [-136-] room, to make them red. But, besides the
fact that the colour thus obtained only lasts
a few seconds, the habit of biting the lips
makes them sore and inclined to chap.
If your lips are naturally dry and rough,
rub them a little every night with equal
parts of water and glycerine.
Do not pass your tongue over your lips;
for, besides being against the rules of polite
society, the dampness thus produced is not
good for them.
If pimples from feverishness come and
disfigure your lips, touch them lightly with
powdered alum, and they will soon be cured.
Extravagant laughter on all occasions,
for everything and nothing, must not be indulged in by those who wish to keep their
lips pretty. Avoid contortions of the mouth
in speaking - does not everyone know
people who draw in and push out their lips
when they speak? Beware of tricks: I
knew a dressmaker who stuck out her lips
every time she drew out her needle. It is [-137-]
easy to understand that excessive laughter,
contortions of the face, and tricks, will disfigure the mouth and bring on premature
old age, while many matrons remain pretty
from knowing how to preserve the freshness
of their lips and the charm of their smile.
To reduce lips that are too thick, rubbing with tannin may be tried.
Pomades for the Lips.
One of the small and disfiguring ills of
life-chapped lips-may be easily cured.
Here are some prescriptions which are
very good in this case:-
(1) Pure wax ... 2 parts
Olive oil ... 11 parts
Melt the wax over a gentle fire, and add the
oil, mixing them well together. Perfume
it with a few drops of tincture of benzoin,
and allow it to get cold.
(2) White wax, oil of sweet almonds, essence of rose,
and a little carmine.
[-138-] (3) Pommade a la Sultane
White wax ... 1drachm.
Spermaceti ... 1 drachm.
Balsam of Peru ... 1 drachm.
Sweet almond oil ... 6½ounces
Rose-water ... 10drachms
Balsam of Peru
Dissolve the wax and spermaceti in oil au bain-marie; pour them into a marble mortar warmed with boiling water; heat vigorously, then add by degrees the rose-water and the balsam, still stirring quickly, till they are completely mixed and the water is all absorbed.
(4) Oil of sweet almonds... 15 drachms
White wax ... 6 drachms
Butter of cacao ...2 drachms
Spermaceti ... 2 drachms
Orchanet ... 4 drachms
Amalgamate these ingredients well over a
gentle fire au bain-marie; strain through
muslin, and perfume with attar of roses.
These pomades should be put into very
small pots, and carefully covered or corked.
[-139-] The Teeth and How to Keep Them Clean.
Théophile Gautier speaks somewhere of
"a dazzling smile of pearls."
It is certain that nothing increases the
charm of a smile so much, and nothing is so
necessary to it, as a double row of perfectly
good white teeth, disclosed when the lips
open to smile.
Pretty teeth are a sine qua non to beauty.
Good teeth - which are almost always pretty - are indispensable to health. "No teeth,
no health," is a strictly true aphorism formulated by Professor Préterre, a surgeon-
dentist who is justly celebrated in France
and elsewhere.
The premature loss of the teeth brings on
old age before its time. It is possible, I
know, to restore to the mouth the "mobilier"
it has lost (as they said in the eighteenth century), but at the cost of what endless worries
to our persons is this reparation made?
[-140-] It is better to guard jealously what
nature has given us. Let us take care of
our teeth, then, so as not to be disfigured by
their loss, so as to escape destructive diseases,
and the terrible sufferings caused by teeth
that have been spoilt, and also to preserve
the purity of the breath, which is a charm
above many others.
Cleaning the teeth is the surest way of
combating the causes of their ruin. They
should be cleaned by careful brushing, both
night and morning; and it is an excellent
thing to rinse out the mouth after every meal
that one takes at home. Particles of food
which stick between the teeth decompose, and
bring by degrees the horrible decay so fatal to
the teeth and to the freshness of the breath.
Some people use cold water for cleaning
their teeth and rinsing the mouth; I advise
the use of tepid water always for both purposes. A slight infusion of mint may be
used for cleaning the teeth, or the following
mixture:-
[-141-] 1½ drachtns of borax and 4½ drachms
of pure glycerine in a quart of luke-warm
water. The first prescription, however, is
the simpler, and may suffice.
The tooth-brush should be small and
nearly round, so as to get into every corner
of the mouth. I shall further speak of
those dentifrices and tooth powders which
seem to me free from dangerous ingredients;
for the majority of things of this sort, and
those most advertised, only increase destruction of the teeth. There are, however, some
that are efficacious, and of these I shall give
the recipes.
It may be enough to use soap for the
teeth three or four times a week (besides
the usual brushing twice a day). For this, very pure white soap, such as Marseilles soap,
should be used. At first the operation
seems, I admit, very disagreeable; but one
very soon gets used to it, and it is followed
with happy results. Soap is an alkaline
preparation, and alkalines are much recom-[-142-]mended for the teeth; it is an antiseptic,
and every mouth requires, more or less, an
antiseptic. Lastly, it removes the tartar
which covers the teeth, which the most
celebrated tooth-powder can only do by
damaging the enamel to some extent.
Some people simply use salt, and with
great advantage to themselves; they rub
the teeth with it, brushing and rinsing the
mouth afterwards with tepid water. These
people have very white teeth, and their gums are firm and red. Still, I should be
afraid that this treatment would not suit
everyone, while the soap may be adopted
without fear, no matter what the teeth or
the temperament may be.
The teeth should not be brushed length-
ways. If this is done, the points of the
gums will be injured and the teeth loosened.
The upper teeth should be brushed from
the top downwards (from the gums to the
ends of the teeth), the lower teeth from the
bottom upwards, also from the gums to the [-148-]
extremity of the teeth. The inside of the
teeth should be brushed in the same fashion,
and as carefully as the outside.
The Gums.
The gums must be taken care of, for
when they are in a good state the teeth are
likely to be the same.
When the gums are soft, here is a powder
that will make them firm:-
Quinine - 15 drachms.
Ratanhia in powder - 6 drachms.
Chlorate of potassium - 5 drachms.
These powders should be well mixed together so as to form but one, with which
the gums are to be rubbed three or four
times a day.
By degrees the gums should be accustomed to a more energetic friction. If they
are very soft and bleed easily, they should
be strengthened by often chewing cress or
scurvy-grass (cochlearia), or by washing
them with an infusion of gentian or of [-144-] bramble-leaves, in which a few drops of
quinine or eau de Cologne should be mixed.
Lemon also has a very good action on
tender or even ulcerated gums. Dip a
camel's-hair brush into the lemon-juice and
tap the affected parts with it, without
touching the teeth. Equal parts of tincture
of ratanhia and tincture of Spanish camomile used in the same manner is much to
be recommended. It should be done at
night.
Another mixture with which the gums
may be touched daily is the following:-
Tincture of cochlearia - 50 grains
Hydrate of chloral - 5 grains
But this is a strong remedy, and should not
be used without medical advice.
A decoction of myrrh, tannin, and oak-bark would be an excellent wash for tender
gums, as it acts as an astringent.
Some foods, such as sugar, bonbons, and
confectionery, are bad for the teeth. It is [-145-] said that dates and radishes, because they are
acid, are also bad for the teeth. Too much
acid destroys the enamel of the teeth. Figs,
like sugar, weaken the teeth, and oils and
greasy substances do them no good.
Beware of drinking immediately after
taking hot soup, unless what you drink is
lukewarm. If it is cold or iced, the teeth
will suffer from this sudden change from a
burning hot to a polar temperature. You
should breathe through the nose, especially
in cold weather (indeed, it is well to keep
to this habit in summer also, for the health
of the lungs). If you breathe through the
mouth in winter, you expose your teeth to
a current of air of a much lower temperature
than that of your body. From this come inflammations of the periosteum and of the
teeth themselves, and congestions of the
mucous membrane, with acid secretions -
but I must not become too scientific. All
sensible people will understand that it is
bad for the teeth to breathe through the [-146-] mouth or to sleep with the mouth open,
which generally happens when one lies on
one's back. It is dangerous to pick the
teeth, or even to touch them, with pins or
any other metallic substances.
"When you eat," says an ancient author,
"eat with both sides, so that one may relieve
the other."
When you suffer from toothache, mistrust the ordinary remedies that are recommended. Creosote, cloves, essence of cinnamon, etc. etc., may perhaps ease your pain,
but they will destroy your teeth. Go at
once to the dentist; and if you are obliged
to delay doing so, use only such remedies as
are evidently harmless. For example, roll
some parsley with a little salt up into a
small ball, and put it into the ear on the side
where the pain is. Or, again, paint the
cheek with lemon-juice, or apply a hot
flannel to the face. A scanty diet and [-147-]
warm baths will sometimes calm the toothache. If the teeth have been hurt by an
acid, seltzer-water will reduce the irritation.
I have known a violent toothache cured
by applying, on the advice of a doctor, a
poultice composed of flour, white of egg,
brandy, and gum, at the angle of the lower
jaw, on the spot where one feels the beating
of the artery. It was a tooth in the lower
jaw, which was causing intolerable suffering.
Toothache may be caused by acidity of the
saliva, from which inflammation and irritation of the teeth arise. A strong solution
of bicarbonate of soda is the remedy for
toothache when produced by this cause.
Rinse the mouth well with this solution,
and apply a little bicarbonate of soda to
the teeth and gums with a brush. Try this
remedy when you suffer from toothache; and if you find relief from it, you will have
discovered the cause of the pain. From
henceforth use bicarbonate of soda in brushing your teeth.
[-148-]
Several persons have assured me that
they cured the decay of their teeth by the
following means :- Fill the hollow teeth
with alum powdered very fine; as the alum
melts in the tooth, the pain disappears.
The operation must be repeated whenever
the pain returns, and in the end it will be
conquered and the decay stopped.
This decay is due to the destructive
action of the particles of food which stick in
hollow teeth, remain there, and become
corrupt. Alum is known to be an antiseptic; hence its virtue in the cases which
now occupy our attention.
Nevertheless, whenever it is possible
have recourse to the dentist, and to a good
dentist: for anything else is a foolish
economy, which will cost a great deal more
in the end, to say nothing of the needless
worries, accidents, and sufferings.
Stopping, and especially gold stopping, done in time, may preserve our teeth indefinitely, and save us from horrible suffering.
[-149-] All neglect on this point is reprehensible,
and will often cause us infinite regret.
Tooth-Powders, Dentifrices, Elixirs.
If you are determined to use powders
and elixirs, be very careful in your choice
of them; I should even advise you to
prepare them at home, to be quite sure that
they contain neither cream of tartar, bole,
or calcareous salts-all substances which
would be fatal to the enamel of the teeth
and to the purity of the breath.
Here are some recipes, of which I will
guarantee the excellence, with which tooth-
powders and elixirs can easily be prepared.
I have the authority of doctors and chemists
for them
(1) Carbonate of precipitated chalk ... 40 drachms.
Powder of Bol d'Arménie ... 40 drachms.
" of magnesia ... ... 10 drachms.
Root of Spanish camomile ... 5 drachms.
" of cloves ... ... ... 5 drachms.
Bicarbonate of soda ... ... 4 drachms.
Essence of peppermint ... ... 1 drachm.
Mix all together carefully.
[-150-] (2) Powdered quinine ... 10 drachms.
Tannin ...10 drachms.
Charcoal ...10 drachms.
Pound them in a mortar, and keep in china or a wooden pot.
(3) Phosphate of dry chalk ... 2 ounces
Iris powder ... 1 ounce
Powdered myrrh ... 8 grains
Mix these and add
Solution of cocaine ... ... 1 drop.
Eucalyptus oil ... ... ... 12 drops.
Mix and heat them all well together, and strain. This
powder is very good for delicate teeth and spongy gums.
(4) Take precipitated chalk as a basis, and add
Powdered soapwort 4 drachms.
Eucalyptus oil ... 4 drachms.
Carbonic acid ... 4 drachms.
An elixir recommended by a chemist:-
Green anis ... 6½ drachms.
Cloves ... 2½ drachms.
Cinnamon 2½ drachms.
Quinine ... 2½ drachms.
Root of Spanish camomile ... 2½ drachms.
Essence of peppermint ... 1½ drachms.
Cochineal ... 1 drachm.
Alcohol (rectified 90º) 1 quart.
These various substances to be infused in the alcohol
for a month, then filtered through paper.
[-151-] Here is a mixture recommended by a
good dentist, who prefers it to eau de Botot:-
Thymol ... 3 grains
Benzoic acid ... 2 scruples
Tincture of Eucalyptus ...46 minims
Water ... ...12 ounces
Shake the bottle.
The mouth should be rinsed with this mixture before going to bed. It is during
the night that the mouth and teeth suffer
most from the fermentation and secretions,
which are formed more profusely during
sleep. Thanks to this lotion, decayed teeth
are purified, and can no longer become a
source of destruction and suffering. The
existing cause will have been eliminated and
rendered powerless.
In the summer season the most delicious
and the best dentifrice is the strawberry.
It cleans the teeth to perfection. It should
be bruised on the brush, the teeth rubbed
with it, and then rinsed out with tepid water. An infusion made with the petals of the pink
[-152-] procures the best of elixirs also during the
summer. The pink is an antiseptic.
I recommend you to eat a small crust of
bread at the end of every meal, after the
dessert.
In spite of all washes and dentifrices,
tartar will form, with rare exceptions, even
on the most carefully kept teeth. People
subject to gout and rheumatism will find
tartar forming on their teeth to some extent,
in spite of all their care.
For those who have not this temperament, energetic brushing will at least in
some degree prevent or delay, and sometimes
even destroy, the appearance of tartar.
Alum is ordered to prevent tartar. Take a
little on your brush, which should be very
slightly wet, and brush your teeth with it
every morning for three or four days at a
time. Rinse your mouth with honey and
water afterwards, to correct the strong
astringent.
[-153-] But it is often necessary to resort to
more vigorous measures for getting rid of
the evil. Dr. Magitol, whose name is famous
in the records of dentistry, does not hesitate
to use the steel to deliver one from the
dreaded tartar. Once the patient is in his
hands, there is no way of escape; and he
does not let you go till he has made an end
of the stony concretion which has formed
on your teeth.
Your mouth is sometimes filled with
blood, and you wish to stop the practitioner's
hand, but he will not let you go till he has
delivered, you from this first cause of the
destruction of the teeth.
The subsequent treatment is very simple.
You have only to suck pastilles of chlorate
of potassium; but be sure that they are
pastilles in which the preserving ingredient
is not absent, as is often the case.
As to black teeth, it is perhaps dangerous to whiten them with the aid of chloric
acid. Many conscientious dentists refuse to [-154-] perform this operation. Salt may be tried
for this unpleasant growth which sometimes
invades the human teeth, if the person thus
inflicted is made too unhappy thereby.
With regard to salt, there is another
occasion on which it may be of great use in
connection with the teeth: if, after having
a tooth extracted, the mouth is filled with
salt and water, there need be no fear of haemorrhage.
Care should be taken of the teeth from
the moment they begin to show themselves.
What a moment of suffering and pain for
the poor little ones-and for the mother,
who sometimes dreads fatal accidents at this
time!
The cutting of the first little teeth will
be facilitated by rubbing the poor baby's
gums with Narbonne honey. It will make
the flesh tender (at the same time strengthening the stomach and intestines), and
the [-155-]
teeth will come through without causing
the suffering which sometimes leads to convulsions, and even death. A crust of bread,
a root of marsh-mallow, the coral invented
by nurses, are all useful for promoting
dentition.
The importance of attending to children' s teeth is evident to the meanest capacity. It has a double object-to prevent
suffering which they are at the moment too
weak to bear, and to ensure them good and
fine teeth in the future.
When the second teeth come, there are
often deleterious influences to be combated.
There is always more or less chance of
decay or of the formation of tartar; care
must be taken, advice asked, and precautions must not be neglected for putting a
spoke in the wheel of the evil in time. A
true mother will also watch over the growth
of the teeth as carefully. Dentists can correct by immediate attention all such dental
deformities as may begin to show themselves.
[-156-] THE VOICE.
The Organ.
A PRETTY voice is a powerful attraction
in a woman; and a fine masculine voice,
full and sonorous, that has not yet undergone any change, is also very much to be
admired.
We ought, therefore, to watch over the
organ that Nature has bestowed upon us, so
as to keep it in a good state and to improve it. A harsh voice may be softened by the
force of will, of study, and of work. A loud
crying voice can be subdued in tone, a rough
one may be made gentler.
A woman should speak in a rather low
voice, but distinctly. To shout in speaking
denotes vulgar habits, and sometimes shows
a domineering spirit; many people talk too
loud for others to be heard in discussion, to [-157-]prevent their opponents from expressing
their thoughts fully, or to keep them from
making some just or judicious remark. It
is well not to spoil the tone of the voice by
talking across a room or from the top of
the house to the bottom, as is often done
without any necessity. In doing so, both
persons are obliged to shout at the top of
their lungs to make themselves heard - a
proceeding which must coarsen and wear
out the voice at last.
There are people, too, who, when they
are spoken to and do not quite take in what
is said to them, pay no sort of attention,
either from distraction or want of interest
in what concerns others; the speaker has in
that case to begin all over again, raising
the voice to the highest pitch, which then
becomes a habit, though often a useless one.
These things generally happen in family
life, where politeness and mutual consideration are so often wanting, and where they
are more needed than anywhere else.
[-158-] We should have self-command enough
never to shout, even when under the influence of anger, indignation, or pain. Such
outcries spoil for ever the chords of a musical
voice.
Children should not be allowed to scream
out when they are playing. I mean those
strident screams, which are hideous, and
which they so often. give. When very
little children scream in a fit of rage, it is
well to throw a few drops of water in their
faces, and go a little away from them
without saying anything. They will then
stop those screams which might be dangerous to such frail little creatures.
One doctor claims to have discovered a
way of making all voices much more harmonious. He claims for peroxide of hydrogen the power of improving the voice in
strength as well as in timbre. He inculcates, therefore, that it should be used by
tenors, baritones, prima-donnas, etc., as well
as by ordinary mortals desirous of possess-[-159-]ing a voice of gold or of crystal. His
theory is that the peroxide is a constituent
of the air and the dew in Italy, and that
the beauty and richness of trans-alpine voices
are due to its presence. This doctor has
invented a chemical compound to replace
the air of Italy. After inhaling it, the
voices of those who did so were said to be
fuller, clearer, richer, and more mellow in
tone.
Slight Diseases of the Throat.
How many voices are worn and hoarse
from the effects of useless excesses and
fatigues! What a drawback to a woman,
and even to a man, is a hoarse, indistinct,
disagreeable voice! And generally this evil
might have been prevented, or at least
remedied.
But there are some kinds of hoarseness
which arise from involuntary causes; for
instance, that which is caused by the larynx
being too wide. It should then be contracted, to prevent the ugly hoarse tones so
[-160-] afflicting to a delicate ear. Lemon, orangeade, and water acidulated with verjuice,
are good in such cases; and cold drinks
should always be used. A gargle of water
and verjuice mixed may also be used with
advantage.
If the hoarseness proceed from bronchitis
or a slight quinsy, use a gargle made from
the wild mustard (sisymbrium officinale).
This herb is a tonic as well as an expectorant.
In every case of hoarseness it is better to
talk as little as possible and in a very low
tone, to drink barley-water, and to eat black-currant jelly. Nero is said to have drunk
leek-water to keep his voice in good condition. Onions will have the same effect
on our voices. Apples baked in their skins,
pippins especially, are much recommended
to orators; and everyone knows that
many singers swallow, or are supposed to
swallow, the yolk of a raw egg every morning before breakfast, to clear the voice.
[-161-] Butter-milk refreshes the voice when it
is fatigued.
Tobacco, alcohol, and all violent stimulants are bad for the voice. Hot, spiced,
and savoury food should be avoided by those
who care for the elasticity of their voice.
Recipes for Clearing the Voice.
The Arabs have a very agreeable remedy
for aphonia. The patient till he is cured
is fed on the pulp of the apricot, cooked in
the ordinary way, and dried in the burning
sun of Sahara.
If a slight irritation of the throat spoils
the sweetness and musical sonority of your
voice, gargle with salt-and-water (Common
salt). It is very good to inhale the steam
of hot milk in which figs have been boiled,
if you want to mellow the tone of the voice.
Fumigations are also excellent. Mix a
little powdered amber and myrrh together,
put them on a red-hot shovel, and inhale
the smoke.
[-162-]
An infusion of male Veronica with a
little sugar-candy is also recommended. A
glassful should be taken before breakfast.
The Language of the Eyes.
SOME eyes are so beautiful that they
make one forget irregularity in the features,
and even other physical defects. They
exercise a fascinating and Sovereign charm.
Their power does not lie in their Colour; it
matters not whether they have borrowed
the tint of the corn-flower or the flash of the
black diamond, whether they reflect· the
June sky or hide their velvety softness
under long lashes; it is the expression
which makes them beautiful.
They must reflect a soul-a soul strong
and great, tender, sweet, loyal and sure,
ardent and loving. The inner being must [-163-]
show itself in the eyes; we must feel, thanks
to them, that beneath this outer shell of
flesh there is an immaterial spirit, which animates and will survive the material body.
If the eye is without expression, it is
because the individual soul is heavy and
asleep. Those lifeless eyes will never
awaken vivid and deep sympathies in
others; they will draw forth neither the
heart nor the intelligence; they will be
utterly powerless.
Some people like blue eyes, others adore
dark ones. There are certain conditions
necessary to the beauty of the eye; it should
be long, almond-shaped, and fringed with
long lashes. Some wish them to be gentle,
others demand that they shall flash. Above
all things, the eye should open wide, with a
fine, frank, direct look-a look which is not
afraid to meet the regard of others. I am
not in any way condemning, be it understood, the timid regard of a young girl
who turns away surprised and almost frightened [-164-] from a passionate glance; but I dislike a
furtive, suspicious look.
It is well to give children the habit of
looking you straight in the face: not insolently, but simply, and with the noble
assurance and confidence that all honest
beings should have in themselves and in
others. Nor should enthusiasm and ardour
be repressed in young creatures when it is
excited by what is beautiful, and great, and
good. If they are obliged to hide their
delight, and still the beating of their young
hearts, their looks will become subdued,
and their eyes will lose their frank expression.
The most beautiful eyes are those which
express all the feelings sincerely and
directly. I know some that are good,
tender, and sweet, but they can flash like
lightning in moments of indignation or
enthusiasm. These eyes can hide nothing;
you may have confidence in those who have
them.
[-165-]
Beware of the man whose eyes are impenetrable. He may not be actually a bad
man, but he may become one. There are
eyes which seem to flood one with light;
others seem to have a veil drawn over them.
Those who know something of life
divine the moral nature from the looks;
and if we examine the eyes of others attentively, we shall not often be deceived in this
world. We shall then know whether the
being we are trying to decipher is artificial
or loyal, frank or reserved, hard or tender,
energetic or weak, keen or indifferent.
Two beings that love each other can
speak with their eyes, and have no need
of any other language. "Love," says an
English poet, "springs from the eyes"; unfortunately he adds, rather frivolously, "like
the potato," alluding to the germs or eyes
of the tuber from which other potatoes
grow. How often have we not heard it
said, "One glance from her is enough to
captivate and enslave me for ever !"
[-166-] True, there are eyes so splendid in expression, so admirable in their limpid clearness, that they take hold of one's heart and
soul, and it is impossible to resist them.
There are eyes so powerful that they
almost hypnotise one. It is lucky if their fascination is only used for good.
In my opinion, eyes are only really
beautiful if they reflect good and wholesome
thoughts and noble sentiments. Righteous
indignation does not diminish their attractiveness, and I like to see them burn with
the fire of enthusiasm.
But let jealousy, cunning, envy, or
brutal rage depict themselves in the eyes,
and they will at once lose all their charm
and power, no matter how perfect they may
be in form and colour.
The Care of the Eyes.
But although it is true that the greatest
beauty of the eyes lies in their expression,
they must not be red, inflamed, tired, or [-167-]
without eyelashes, if they are to keep all
their seductive fascination.
Never rub your eyes, if you do not
want to have red eyelids. Even if something gets into your eye, do not irritate it
by trying to get rid of the intruder by violent
measures. Close your eyes quickly, and
wait patiently thus even for a quarter of an
hour, if necessary. The natural watering of
the eye will expel the foreign substance.
If your eyes are red from the wind,
bathe them in tepid water with a little
common salt in it.
Veils, and especially spotted veils, are
very bad for the sight. They should only
be worn, therefore, in the winter months to
protect the face from the cold.
Sitting up late, and artificial light,
make the eyes red and tired. Lamps
should always have large shades on them.
It is dangerous to the sight to look at
the sun or at the centre of an electric
light. Gas, candles, and ordinary lamps [-168-] should all be subdued by screens, smoked
glasses, etc.
Do not amuse yourself by watching the
play of the flames in the grate, or considering the designs formed by the red-hot coals.
A screen is a necessity, even if you are sitting
at one side of the fire.
White walls on which the light is vividly
reflected, the snow, or roads whitened by
the rays of the sun in summer, are very
fatiguing to the eyes, unless they are protected by coloured glasses ; on the other
hand, some oculists consider these glasses
injurious. Wide-brimmed hats, shading the
forehead well, are the best headdress for
the summer, as they protect the eyes from
the fierce light and from the sun's rays.
However strong your eyes may be, grant
them a little rest after two hours of continuous work, whether with the pen or the
needle, etc. If they are weak, do not occupy
them much with any work which involves
fixing them on minute objects. Do not [-169-] write, read, sew, or do anything which demands an effort of the sight when the light
is insufficient. Whatever work you are
doing, close the eyes every now and then for
an instant. Let them wander to a distance,
too, at intervals.
The most restful colours for the eyes are
green and blue. Do not surround yourself
with very bright colours. Red is blinding.
Choose soft shades, very much blended, in
hangings, stuffs, wall-papers, etc.
Very dark shades are unsuitable either
for decoration or furniture, and strong contrasts are equally tiring to the eyes.
The light should come from the side, not
in front. In working, it should come from
the left-hand side.
You should write on tinted paper, and
only read books and newspapers that are
well-printed. Avoid stooping too much in
reading, writing, or sewing, etc., to avoid
congesting the head and face. It is bad
for the sight to read in the train, or while [-170-] driving and walking, or in bed when one is
tired or recovering from illness.
Take care of the stomach. It is said
that Milton became blind not only from
overworking his eyes, but also because he
suffered from dyspepsia. Living in a damp
place often weakens the sight. Hygienic
conditions are important for the eyes;
sobriety and absence from all excesses have
always been rewarded by excellent sight.
But absence of good food would be as bad,
on the other hand. Beware of too sudden
changes from heat to cold, or from darkness
to light. In consideration of this, beds
should be placed in such a position that the
eyes will not face the daylight or the sun's
rays on first awakening. The light should
come to them from the side. It is well to
wait for a few moments in coming out of the
dark into a brilliantly-lighted room before
beginning to read, write, or work.
Montaigne advises the application of a
plain piece of glass on the page when reading, [-171-]
and in this way to delay the use of spectacles.
Under the glass the paper of the book or
newspaper is, in fact, less staringly white,
and the characters appear more distinct.
The light of the lamp should, of course, not
be allowed to strike directly on the glass.
Never rub your eyes on awakening, and
prevent little children from acquiring this
habit.
Use magnifying - glasses, microscopes,
and eye-glasses as sparingly as possible, and
take off your glasses whenever you can
do without them-when out walking, talking, etc.
Bathe your eyes pretty often, especially
morning and evening. If you are at all
afraid of congestion, use tepid water. An
infusion of weak black tea is good for
bathing sore eyes.
Avoid all eye-washes that have not been
prescribed by a good doctor or oculist. If
your eyelids are inflamed, wash them with
rose- and plantain-water. Strawberry juice [-172-] well strained through a cloth is also very
beneficial.
An experienced doctor recommends elder-
flower water for the pricking one sometimes
feels in the eyes. The juice of chervil and
of lettuce is also refreshing when the eyes
are irritable.
The following recipe is recommended by
a doctor :-A quart of soft water, a pinch
of kitchen salt, and a teaspoonful of good
brandy. Let them dissolve, and shake the
bottle before using the mixture. This wash
strengthens the sight quickly, and restores it
to its former vigour. The evening, says the
same doctor, is the best time for bathing the
eyes.
The Eye-lashes.
To be beautiful, and protect the eyes
well, eye-lashes should be long and thick;
and under these conditions they give great
softness to the expression of the eyes.
It is asserted that a medicinal pomade,
called "pomade trichogene," will make them [-173-]
grow. Some women have the points of
their eye-lashes cut by a practitioners to
make them thick and long.
Rubbing the eyes is a bad habit in more
ways than one; it makes the lashes fall out.
I cannot advise blackening the lashes,
in spite of the attraction it may lend to the
eye. All making-up so near to the precious
organ of sight is doubly dangerous.
The Eyebrows.
Bushy eyebrows give something brutal
and fierce to the face. Very tiny fine combs
have been invented to keep them in good
order.
Fine arched eyebrows that look as if
they had been painted with a brush give
an air of serenity to the countenance. On
the other hand, rather thick eyebrows are
becoming to the eyes.
Scanty badly-formed eyebrows, which
make a red line over the eye, are a real defect.
Rubbing them every morning with a little [-174-] petroleum after bathing them in cold water
may help to make them grow. Cutting
them also makes them grow thicker.
If you wish to lengthen or darken your
eyebrows, I would advise, in spite of my
horror of making-up, a means which is absolutely harmless: a solution of Chinese
ink in rose-water. This is a secret of the
harem.
Further Advice.
It is asserted that squinting is often due
to the placing of the cradle where it receives
a bad or false light. The baby on awaking
is forced to squint.
A child's bed should therefore be placed
with discernment The light should come
from the side, never in front or behind the
head.
Happily, strabism may be corrected or
entirely destroyed. We counsel those who
are so afflicted to submit to the treatment
which will restore their eyes to that straightness of look which is their chief beauty.
[-175-] The expenditure of time and money,
even suffering, should deter no one. The
result obtained will amply repay all the
sacrifices made.
Abnormal Redness.
Your nose may be chiselled in the most
exquisite manner, but if the roses of your
cheeks have spread over it, you will wish
that instead of your inflamed Greek nose
you had a common snub one, if only it
were quite white. And you would be right
if there were no remedy for this little misfortune.
When a red nose is not due t~ the cold,
but to the dryness of the nasal duct, or to
the delicacy of the capillary vessels, it is
easy to stop the inflammation. You prepare a wash in the following manner :-Powdered
[-176-]
borax 154 grains, a teaspoonful of eau
de Cologne, soft water 5 ounces. Melt the
borax in the water, then add the eau de Cologne. It will be sufficient to damp the
nose with this lotion, and to let it dry without wiping it. If the nose should begin to
burn again, repeat the treatment. Here is
another mixture, which does not differ very
much from the first, but I give it, all
the same. Dissolve 30 grains of borax in
half an ounce of rose-water and the same
quantity of orange-flower water. Wet the
nose at least three times a day with this
refreshing lotion, and do not wipe it off.
Redness of the nose often proceeds from
a kind of congestion. In this case it should
be washed with warm water only, on going
to bed at night.
This unpleasant redness may also be
imputed to the kind of constitution.
Scrofulous persons are afflicted with it.
They must abstain from ham, or pork under
my form, meat, bacon, fat, and sausage-meat, [-177-]
and also from salt meats or highly-spiced
foods.
Redness also comes from a bad state of
the nostrils; in that case, wash with hot
water. Cold water will increase the redness.
Never touch your nostrils with your fingers.
Sniff up a little hot water, and eject it
gently. A little thick cream spread on
the irritated part will protect it very
much against the effects of the open
air, and will soften the inflamed surface.
A chill in the head will aggravate the
evil, so the head should be covered during
sleep.
Wearing the clothes too tight, especially
the stays, and a feeble action of the heart,
may also be the cause of a red nose. In the
first case, it is evident the clothes should be
worn loosely. In the second, a great deal
of rest is necessary; while a cold bath on
getting up in the morning, rubbing vigorously with a flesh-brush after it, will be
found beneficial. Dry yourself well till the [-178-] skin is warm. Pure air is also a necessity
at all times.
Hairs in the Nose.
The masculine nose of all kinds is often
ornamented by hairs growing on the end of it. There is no reason why this
inconvenient growth should not be pulled out with
a pair of tweezers.
But this would be a dangerous method
of getting rid of the hair which sometimes
grows inside the nostrils; the inflammation
caused by pulling out these hairs, or by using
a depilatory, might endanger the shape, or
even the existence, of this important olfactory organ. You must be content with
cutting these unfortunate hairs, if you have
them.
As to the little black spots with which
many noses (and sometimes cheeks) are
spotted, I will not decide what causes them;
whatever it is, the way to extirpate the [-179-]
secretion is to squeeze the black spot out
between your fingers.
Washing with fresh water, or water with
a few drops of tincture of benzoin in it, is
advisable; also frictioning with diluted
glycerine. A chemist recommends friction
with soft soap. A doctor also prescribed
this soap, put on in thin layers on the
affected parts; this should be done going to
bed at night.
The Science of Rhinoplasty.
This science, which concerns the nose,
has made such progress that it is possible
now to modify, even to change, the shape of
the nose. The methods employed belong to
the regions of medicine.
I may, however, suggest to persons
afflicted with a large nose the means of
diminishing its size. To do this, it will be
sufficient to wear a pince-nez, without glasses
in it, at night, and in the day-time whenever you are alone.
[-180-] If the nose is a little on one side, or
deviates from the central line, it must be
blown exclusively on the defective side until
it has become straight.
In New York the society women remould their noses, so as to make them Greek,
Roman, or Jewish, according to their fancy,
by means of an instrument worn at night.
Its Properties.
I SHALL perhaps be thought to be going into
very minute particulars if I insist on the
necessity of cleaning the exterior of the ear,
as well as the auditory duct, very carefully.
Many scrupulously neat people, from not
being able to see this part of their body in
detail, and from using only a sponge and
towel for washing it, do not succeed in
perfectly clearing all the little corners of the [-181-] ear from dust or other matters that soil it.
A little ivory implement is necessary for the
purpose. It should be covered with the
corner of a wet towel, and it will penetrate
perfectly into all the turns and corners of
the pavilion and auricle, which should be
first soaped, and which fingers, however
delicate they may be, could not perfectly
accomplish. These ear-pickers, always
covered with a towel, serve to free the external auditory duct of the wax which is
necessary to the ear, but which accumulates
in useless and even harmful quantities, and
is very unpleasant to the eye if the excessive secretion is not carefully taken away
every day.
I have seen the most charming little ears,
the shape of a bean and lined with rose-colour, but seeming profaned by want of
minute care in cleaning them. Instead of
being delightful to look at, as they might
have been, they presented an almost repulsive aspect. If this is so with a pretty
ear, [-182-] what must it be in a commonplace or ugly
one?
Precautions for avoiding Deafness.
If you have any tendency to deafness,
or even are a little hard of hearing, take
great care not to wet your hair. You must
not plunge into a cold bath-you should
even wear an oiled silk cap in your bath.
If the inside of your ear is irritable, never
scratch it with the head of a pin or hairpin, the point of a pencil, or any analogous
object.
If your ears are at all delicate, it is bad
for the hearing to let your feet be cold.
Beware of the damp for your extremities,
and never sit with your back to an open
window. Such imprudence will increase
your infirmity.
Never pour any liquid into your ears
which has not first been warmed. Neither
should oil, milk, or other fatty substances,
be used for relieving ear-ache. All the [-183-]
grease is liable to become rancid, and will
only set up inflammation.
If a live insect gets into your ear, do not
be alarmed; the bitter wax will soon make it
get out again. Besides, if you get a little
warm water poured in the ear, the insect will
be drowned, and will float to the surface,
where it can be taken away with the fingers.
A few puffs of tobacco-smoke, too, will
stupefy this intruder into a place where he
had no business to go.
Never box a child's ears; you might
break the tympanum and cause incurable
deafness by your brutality.
I wish to point out to women who have
a certain form of nervous deafness a very
simple and easy way of diminishing this disagreeable infirmity, which puts those who
have it almost out of human fellowship by
preventing them from hearing what is being
said or taking part in conversation.
[-184-] They should always have close at hand
a Japanese fan made of bamboo canes split
in two and covered with paper. When
they want to hear, they must at once take up
the fan, spread it out, leaving: the wide edge
against the jaw (on the deaf side or on the
side next whoever is speaking), and spreading
it enough to stretch the bamboo canes to
some extent. These persons will be quite surprised to find that they hear as well as if
they were using an audiphone or a dentaphone, to say nothing of the more pleasing
appearance of the fan.
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